Thursday, October 6, 2011

Are You COOL?

Matter of fact
Everybody wants to befriend with a cool guy. Somebody attached to a feel good factor to hang out with. Name it, a celebrity, a geek, a singer, an actor or anything that crossed your mind.

The truth is, being cool is being the real you. I mean, you don't need any expensive gadgets to be cool. U don't need extra peculiar outfits to be cool. You don't need to be somebody else to be cool. Face it, some of us try hard, sometimes too hard to be cool. To feel hip to be around with.

Just take a good look at obefiend with his galaxy tab. He's not as cool as u ever think so. He's just good at what he's doing. A celebrity? They're good at what they are doing. You can't levelled cool. 

But i think i know. Some people tend to be or look cool someway somehow just to feel good with their own self. There's a big sense of the urge to be accepted. The acceptance of others. The approval. You don't need all of that actually. 

I will befriend with you if u're you. Thats more than enough. Just don't try to go overboard doing this and that to look cool. At some level, u'll someway somehow being stereotyped as a show off or something because u're in need of an approval from someone who doesn't even know you.

To some extend, some people waste a lot of money and effort just to look cool in order for the society to approve them as cool. 

I knew a guy who bought a blackberry because almost everybody had one. A a matter of fact, he didn;t even use it to the maximum regularities amazed me on how stupidity and the sense of approval is killing them. Then, he bought a DSLR, the so called cool stuff to play with. You know why he's buying that shit? Because he thinks its cool just to have a DSLR. Quite stupid. Bet i bet he's in need of the approval. 

Meyh, u don't need all that just to be true with your friend. I don't care what u had, or what u wear. People will still be your friend if they're true enough to be a friend. I won't befriend with u just because your father is a fucking multibillionaire and you drive an audi TT to class. You can befriend with material, but they won't last as long as when u befriend with that person.

And trust me, you don't have to smoke weed to look cool, you don't need to pop that ecstacy to be cool, you don't need to snort that fucking cocaine to be cool and u don't have to inject that motherfucking heroin into your blood vein to look cool. Just be your own self. The real friend will befriend with you with the real you and stay together if u're still you. 

Don't run around buying this and that, doing stuff and shit just to boost your cool level. Don't u feel like u're lying to urself doing all those shit? Get in front of the mirror naked and ask yourself, will you befriend with yourself because of you or because some else shit that doesn't even matter. 

Let me copy paste what Steve Jobs have said in his speech before he was dead.

"Your time is limited; so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."

See, he's being him the way he was. 
RIP Steve Jobs. 

It's true. Life is too short to live it trying to be anything other than your true, original self. Be who you are, and be it the best way you know how. Celebrate your individuality and uniqueness. Dare to be an original!


Impersonating others won't make you look cool,
It will only make you look like a fool.

Dealwithit mafakka


kurosagi said...

"Don't be afraid of being unique. It's like being afraid of your best self." --Donald J. Trump

my opinion about impersonating is impersonating others are quite difficult~ its not an easy thing to do, i wonder why some people never gave up doing so~ OK la, i am not saying impersonating is wrong but take only good personality one, n ignore the others~ most of the impersonator means for "making fun out of peoples who impersonated" not to be adapted in real life~

cool ?? when you realize that you dont need that, only then you become COOL~

Abang Zam said...

i like to be cool. girls like it

Syara Mohammad said...


Perhaps, having gadgets all around seems cool. As for me, having all of them are something very useful.

Previously, I bought a camera. Named it as DSLR. Yes. Costly. I thought it just gonna be a hobby but the opportunities came to me. I'm learning. Found out, how magnificent the outside world not from my own lens.

Acceptance is subjective, I should say. I can't accept if a cool, rich, handsome, brilliant guy fall for a person like me. It's not cool at all.

World peace!

cafiena said...

i wonder when does our youngster will have such in depth thought about being cool and famous,all they do is follow the cool trend and then laugh about teen story of having a queen bee.

Anonymous said...

I know.
As if u have a kewl (hey, kanak2 je taip mcm ni) stuff herewith.
Just so u know, ur soul is sorrow and dark whilst other people have cool stuff and u dont. too bad, soo sad. well in bahasa melayunya kid - dengki.

- me again, lyn :)

comic reader said...

Cool is me.


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